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The submitted question covered in this blog: " What does it mean if your pregnant and a spirt or demon tries to engage sexual intercourse with you " Thank you submitting this question and being upfront about sharing such a personal experience! The interpretation of this can be complicated, drawing from both your personal spiritual beliefs and other broader personal contexts. Pregnancy is known to sometimes make witches feel more energetically open or sensitive to various energies. You are likely more attuned to some subtle energies and may be drawing them to you Is it possible that you are perceiving a strong or invasive energetic presence and your mind is interpreting it in a sexual context? ...especially if you are feeling vulnerable or stressed. In some spiritual practices involving shadow work manifestations, disturbing or uncomfortable experiences can be manifestations of your own subconscious "shadow" aspects that need to be acknowledged and integrated. More about shadow work in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-expanded Shadow work expanded on further. As a Humanist Wiccan, I wonder if your pregnancy might be bringing something subconscious to the surface, perhaps? Does the experience hold any symbolic meaning for you or within your spiritual journey? Consider what intercourse, intimacy, power, and vulnerability within this context represents to you personally. The spirit or demon might actually be a symbolic representation of an internal conflict or an external force you can subtly feel is trying to control or making you feel violated. Some witchcraft traditions may view your growing power as a pregnant witch a source of attraction for certain entities, both benevolent and malevolent. In that case, this could be a negative entity reacting to your increasing energy. Regardless, the experience signifies a violation of your energetic and personal boundaries. My advice is to reclaim and strengthen your boundaries as a crucial next step. An evil eye amulat is often worn as a protective symbol against psychic attacks Depending on your cultural background, there might be existing folklore about spirits and pregnancy that you may find helpful. If you feel psychically attacked, you should immediately reinforce your spiritual protections. This could involve casting protective circles or shields, or calling upon your deities, guides, or guardians for protection, using protective sigils, crystals, or herbs, performing cleansing rituals for yourself and your space. More about protection in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/protections protecting yourself further. Try to discern the nature of the experience. Does the spirit feel malicious, opportunistic, or something else? Trust your intuition and maybe trying a divination practice that you use might be helpful. Your protective instincts for your unborn child are likely strong. Incorporate protections for your baby into your spiritual workings. Energetically and intentionally set firm boundaries. Clearly communicate (mentally or verbally) that such interactions are unwelcome and will not be tolerated. If you feel the entity is negative or attached, perform thorough cleansing and banishing rituals for yourself, your home, and in your aura. If you are part of a coven or have trusted fellow witches, reach out for support, guidance, and potentially collaborative workings. While approaching it from a spiritual perspective, don't entirely dismiss the possibility of vivid dreams or psychological factors. Hormonal changes and stress during pregnancy can lead to vivid and disturbing dreams that feel very real. Anxiety and fear related to pregnancy or other factors can manifest in unusual experiences. I can imagine that experiencing something like what you've described may be deeply unsettling. Trust your instincts, prioritize your well-being and the well-being of your baby, and don't hesitate to seek support from both spiritual and mundane sources. If the experience is causing significant distress, seeking support from a therapist or counselor who is open to magick or understanding of spiritual experiences could be beneficial. Explore any underlying fears, vulnerabilities, or unresolved issues that might be contributing to these experiences. Regularly ground your energy and center yourself to maintain stability and connection to the earth. It is in hope that this is helpful. Please don't hesitate to reach out again if you have any questions or further concerns. Of course, if you have other questions about witchcraft related topics, can also be submitted at www.askagreywitch.com Blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog: "What dangers are present to those who identify as witches today?" Thank you for submitting this question as this is a huge concern internationally. The answer to this question will depend on where you live in the world. This question may have derived from the previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/dangers-of-witchcraft Dangers of Witchcraft. Most of whom are affected by witchcraft related prejudice unfortunately usually belong to vulnerable or marginalised groups such as women, children or people with abnormalities or disabilities. Witches are sometimes used by their communities as easy excuses or scapegoats for all kinds of problems such as but not exclusive to illnesses, misfortunes or poverty. "If something goes unexpectedly wrong, a witch must've been involved" and accusations can spread like wildfire. It is my understanding that this was the basis behind the European and North American witch trials, also known as the witch-hunt, in the mid 1600s. This radical movement has been memorialized within the popular colonial town of Salem in Massachusetts, USA. This is where in 1692 to 1693 more than 200 people were prosecuted for suspected witchcraft related activities and many perished under torture, in unsanitary prisons, or while being hung when found guilty. ... And, that was just one town! In Europe this was known as the Burning Times in the 16th and 17th centuries as witches were often burned at the stake. The historical persecution of witches are complex and tragic events that collectively encompass the misunderstandings, misconceptions, and prosecutions that led to the deaths of countless innocent people. Unlike the United States and Canada, unfortunately this fear and prosecution is still very prevalent in some other countries around the world today, such as in India, Nigeria, Zimbabwe and South Africa. Within these countries it is extremely dangerous to be considered a witch due to the amount of fear, misunderstandings and misconceptions that still existing today. The many number of churches that preach about sorcery and witchcraft being tied to evil contributes to the rise of witchcraft related abuse and discrimination. The ways in which witches are often portrayed in movies and television shows doesn't help either and also contributes to this fear factor. The many misunderstanding that still exist today has lead to many witches to feel unsafe to publicly identify as a witch, or any kind of magickal practitioner. More about that can be read in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/out-of-the-broom-closet Out of the broom closet. Proper education and training on the subject of witchcraft as well as cultural and social changes may be what's required in order to tackle these epidemics of panic driven fear. As a North American witch who resides in Canada, I am fortunate enough and privileged to express myself without the worry or fear of prosecution. It is not dangerous for me to be a witch as it is for others in other areas of the world, as I mentioned above. As a citizen of Canada, I am protected by the Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Particularly: the Freedom of Religion; Freedom of Thought Belief, Opinion, and Expression; and Equality Rights. However, I do still occasionally experience some discrimination from others based on my individual beliefs that differ from the more common belief systems and general public view. It should be mentioned that while the Canadian Charter provides these protections, there are limitations on these rights. Such as when these rights infringe on the rights of others or are contrary to public safety. The Witchcraft laws in Canada were officially repealed in 2016. This means that it is no longer a crime to practice witchcraft or to engage in related activities. This is when I, myself began to openly express myself as a grey practitioner of magick. While the specific laws against witchcraft have been removed, other laws, such as those related to fraud or harassment, may still apply if someone uses witchcraft-related practices to deceive people. It should also be mentioned that many witches and Wiccans generally follow a "harm none, do what ye will" guideline in their magick. More about that can be read in this recent previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/the-law-of-iii The Law of III. Thank you for reading my blog while visiting my website. Do you have questions related to magick and witchcraft? Submit them at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/contact Stay safe! And, bright blessings.

Ask a Grey Witch was a guest on the Witches of Eastview! This live broadcast was recorded the evening of April 13th, 2023. Aurora Moon and Bryan Stafford discuss being witches, the difference between their individual practices and answer questions submitted in the chat during the recording. Grey:  An ill-defined topic, situation or area of activity not readily conforming to a category or set of rules. Grey Witch: Working within the "Grey Areas" of Witchcraft and finding balance. Stay tuned for more great collaborations between these channels soon to come. Thank you to Aurora Moon for inviting me to join you for this interesting conversation. If you have any questions, please feel free to submit them at www.AskaGreyWitch.com Thank you to YOU for viewing this video and for visiting my blog!

Submitted questions covered in this blog/video: "Do you make money from doing spells?" There are two different ways that I can think of in which to address this question -- thank you for btw! One way that I have technically made money from spell work (from my perspective) is by achieving manifestations. Such as spell work to succeed financially or assisting with mundane actions through out life tasks and objectives. For example, when I was much younger, I manifested the house and home that I wanted to live in and did live in years later, and still do to this day. As mentioned in this more recent blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/manifestation-explained A Manifestation explained. I couldn't have achieved it without the hard work and dedication I put in that was required in order to follow through with the manifested steps laid out before me. Like, the pieces all came together at just the right moments for it to have happened successfully. It has been heard work and much of that involved money of course. Money and prosperity spells have also been instrumental in my life when cash was/is needed. In the video, I thought I'd share an example of a simple candle money spell that I do. It can be done to bring money to you and secure your finances. A money and prosperity spell: One way that I like to 'make money' from magick is to manifest income and balancing and protection of my finances. For this spell, you will need: a fire proof dish, a green candle, and some change. Use coins of different denominations to encourage all sorts of income. Herbs I will use in this spell are rosemary, cloves, and bay leaves. Should be set aside for later use in the spell. Be sure to charge each herb with intension before using in the spell, rosemary for positivity, cloves for protection, and bay for money. Start by charging the green candle, working from the center of the candle outwards towards the end of the candle. Herb infusions can be made ahead of time and used in this spell as well by dressing the candle with the oil while charging it with intention. To make an infusion, submerge herb in a base oil, like grape seed, or olive, and allow to soak for a period of time until oil is well infused with the herb. I have decided to add a peppermint infusion to my candle with intention to promote prosperity within the workings of this spell. Oil is always applied to candles starting at the center and working the oil outwards towards the ends, similar to charging with energy. I purchased oil dispensers for my infusions. However, can be applied directly to the candle with your fingers. Be sure that the type of oil used will not harm your skin if using your fingers. Herbs that can cause irritation are Jasmin, Oregano, Lemon Grass, Cinnamon bark, Peppermint, Clove, and some herbs that are phototoxic are Bergamot, lemon, orange, other Curtis. Oils can be diluted with a base to prevent serious reactions on contact. Stand the candle in the centre of the dish and place the coins around the base of the candle so that the coins sorry the candle from falling over. Use as many coins required to stabilize the candle. Visualize the coins as the incoming money due to the results of the spell. I like to place objects of reference to my intention in the work space when doing spells which helps me to connect with the desired outcome of workings. Such as, for this spell, pyrite crystal, (aka false gold), assorted stones, such as Tiger eye and blood stone, and a crystal ball for focus. Connect yourself with this candle. This can be done with visualization, meditation, or whatever your practice. Take the bay leaf and crumble it evenly around the candle. Visualize the pieces as individual bills of cash coming in due to the spell. Add the pieces of bay leaf to the dish from all directions around the candle. During, visualize money coming in from different sources. Add the cloves spreading around the candle in a counter clockwise direction to remove obsticles, hense protecting the outcome of the money spell. Add the rosemary around the candle in a clockwise direction to increase the chances of positive outcomes from the money spell. The candle is now ready to be lit. Always be careful with fire. An incantation can be spoken to focus your intention for the candle. Speak your desires from the heart. Allow the candle to sit undisturbed while it burns and let it burn all the way down and through until the flame extinguishes itself. Ritual size candles should burn for about an hour or so, providing the flame is not disturbed by wind. Close any open windows or doors if needed. While the candle burns, I like to lit incense with associative properties. The incense stick I used in this spell was made from frankincense. I chose to use frankincense during this also to promote relaxation, feelings of peace, and overall well being. Rosemary would also suffice. Other forms of magick can be implemented into this spell, such as carving inscription into the candle, or creating a sigil to place the candle on. Never leave a burning candle by itself unsupervised!!! This spell should be setup close by so that it can be watched closely. Allow the candle to burn over time. As mentioned earlier, a ritual size candle will burn for about an hour or so. The melting wax will drip down into the coins and then hardern as it cools which secures the coins in place, symbolically securing your finances. It's ok if the herbs catch on fire which will add to the fragrances. This is one reason why a fire proof dish is so important to use. Always be careful around fire. The scent of peppermint and frankincense surrounds the candle encouraging intention of prosperity and we'll being for these workings. Alternative ideas to add to this spell are: Black salt can be added to the dish as a powerful boost of protection, Mixing dried basil with white sugar can create a money drawing powder, Sprinkling cinnamon powder over the candle can be grounding and adds further protection to the spellwork. This spell can also be done with a dish of water and a floating candle. The dish can also be placed around the home strategically, such as close to the main front door way to promote prosperity entering with you. When the candle is completely burned out, I will place the dish in front of a framed picture of myself accepting the spellworking's results. That is basically it. On another related topic, charging a fee for spells to do for others is not a regular occurrence for me. However, I have done spellwork for others, and yes -- I have been paid for my time when my own intentions do not match the intentions of my client. Otherwise, the spells that I charge for are when supplies are required to cover any costs associated, if any. Usually, when I'm asked if a can do spells for others, my first advise to them is always that spells work best when done yourself. No one can connect with your inner true intentions better than yourself. Always first seek assistance from perhaps a coven, or possibly law friends or family first. Very often I help many who ask me questions by simply explaining examples, providing information, or directing to some online sources of information, for the purpose for them to find what works best for themselves. Expenses may be necessary for the purchasing of supplies, ingredients, or whatever associations to be used in the workings that are not found around the home, or not wanting to learn to make from natural sources from the environment outside. As mentioned in a previous blog, all supplies needed to do witchcraft don't actually cost anything and can be acquired from outside in nature via water, sticks, leaves, herbs, stones, snow, dirt, etc. and that purchasing tools and supplies is not actually necessary in order to learn. Although tools and supplies can help us to connect with our intentions in workings, the best tools are homemade and the best ingredients are self grown/made. I'm always happy to help others along their own journey down a spiritual path such as witchcraft -- hence, this blog! Thank you for reading! If I can clarify further or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com

Submitted question covered in this blog; "What is the biggest manifestation you've done as a witch?" This is an interesting question, as I'm not really sure of it's pure intention. It seems at first glance that this question was originally worded to legitimize spell work in general. However, I decided that I would still attempt to answer it. Magick is very much real and even if you don't believe that, it's existence through out history is hard to deny. To first clarify what is meant by spell work, I'm referring to a process of manifestation for a desired outcome to be materialized into reality. Manifestation generally refers to the belief that by intently focusing your thoughts, beliefs, and actions on a specific outcome, which that goal can be brought into reality. It's based on the physiological concept that your thoughts and energy have a powerful influence on your experiences. A central tenet of manifestation is the Law of Attraction. It's definition suggesting that we attract into our life what we put out into the universe. Positive thoughts and feelings are believed to attract positive outcomes. And, the same goes for negativity as well. Imagining and visualizing your desired outcome is a key component to manifestation and can be symbolized within ritualized spell work to strengthen that focus. Repeating positive affirming statements in incantation is thought to reprogram your subconscious mind. While thought and belief are important, many advocates of magick emphasize that taking inspired action is crucial for manifestation to occur. More about manifestation is available at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/manifestation As a witch, I have achieved manifestation through many of my own workings. The 'biggest' that I have accomplished in my perspective would really depend on the true meaning of "biggest". For example, biggest in size? Or, biggest outcome? Or, biggest impact? Or, biggest prosper? etc. In my opinion, the most impactful and prosperous manifestation that I've accomplished would be what i called my "castle spell". Also mentioned in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/making-money-from-spellwork Making money from spellwork. Essentially, when I was younger i dreamed of living independently when I got older. I imagined living in and owning a large million dollar home (referred to as a castle to represent stability and structure and status) included with tall white pillars, placed on top of a large hill, certain features, with a large wild naturalized yard with wildflower gardens, surrounded by trees, and i even joked that I would one day maybe consider hiring my brother to work on my property, or mow my lawn, etc. (yes, it was kinda mean.... my brother and I did not get along well, as children he stole from me, we disagree and we fought a lot). As a teenager, I re-formulated this dream and desire into a poetic incantation and set a ritual to correspond my will with my words intertwining my intention for the future. An example of what I imagined Now adays i can't quite recall the exact spell and component of the workings or ritual since it was composed so long ago. Afterall, the most successful spells are the ones that are out out of sight, out of mind with confidence that the desire will be fulfilled. Several years later i did eventually purchase a large house on the top of a hill in a neighborhood named after the forest that surrounds it amongst its wild flower naturalized yard. My spouse called it, my castle, unknowing about my spell I did previously. Once they mentioned that, I was reminded of my castle spell when i was a youth and the desired parameters of it: The house does have tall white pillars (although not exactly how i imagined them), it is located at the top of a large hill, specific features mentioned with a large wild naturalized yard with wildflower gardens, surrounded by trees! However, a million dollar valued home does not look nearly the same today as it did over thirty years ago! I don't live in the extraordinary large mansion that I envisioned as a youth. However, my home does contain all of the features and details explained in the castle spell from a long time ago. Perhaps i should have been more specific. AND, the only time that my brother had ever visited me at this house was once when he helped me with some yardwork as we dug post holes in order to build a fence (i wasn't actually that far off from my premonition of hiring him to do yard work either!!!). The actual house that was manifested However, This house was not purchased for a million dollars. In the past ten years, certainly since the recent pandemic, the housing market has increased over 30% unexpectedly (at least, i didn't expect that) bringing my home closer to a one million dollar value evaluation based on the area where it's located and the size of property, etc. In my opinion, that's manifestation at its best! It is in hopes that this is described clearly and is helpful. If there are any questions, please feel free to submit them, or reach out to me at greywitchbryan@gmail.com or at www.askagreywitch.com Thank you for visiting my website and for reading the blog!

Submitted question covered in this blog/video/pictures: "How do you cast a protective circle?" This is a kind of personal question, which I sincerely welcome and thank whom submitted it, as there are many different ways to open and close a circle for magickal workings. It really depends on your own practice and what feels right to you individually, or with a group if so. However, in this blog/video I will describe how i personally do it in my private outdoor circle space. In my outdoor personal circle space, I often cast protective circles for spellwork or rituals. Circles are designated sacred spaces to contain energies within. It can be indoors, or outside, really it can be anywhere. Choose an area that is at least 3 meters by 3 meters (or 9 feet by 9 feet). It can be marked with a rope, or outlined with salt, or anyway that feels right to you, so that you can see it's perimeter. My outdoor sacred space is marked with a stone brick path that surrounds the area and spirals towards the center. In the centre of the circle I will setup an alter where I do my workings with the raised and contained energies. I will start by cleansing myself, removing any unwanted energies that may be surrounding me and cleansing my aura with a selenite crystal wand to bring balance to my chakras and energy centers. I will also use moon water to bless myself with purity in my intentions for the energies about to be raised. I will meditate before casting the circle. Take the time that you need... I like to start by sweeping unwanted energy out of the space and around the perimeter of the circle. Using my athame and wand I will "draw" the circle perimeter with my energy creating the sacred space within it. Invoking the four directions starting in the east calling the quartets or guardians of each direction with incantation. I will use moon water to bless the area which the circle is being cast. All the while moving in a clockwise direction to open it, also known as deosil. When the circle is open i will begin any workings or spellwork to be done while in this protected sacred space. The energies of the spellwork stay contained in the circle until the circle is closed and the raised energy is released. I also like to do some journaling, reflection, or meditation, or inviting gods or goddesses to join me. Within the space i have some little statues of nature that i find calming to look at. There are also assorted herbs that grow between the paths which blooms appear closer to the summer time. The video was filmed in the beginning of spring and so have not grown yet. To close the circle I use my athame and wand to disburse the perimeter releasing the spell's energy to manifest. I go in an anti-clockwise direction to close the circle, also known as widdershins (opposite to the east that it was opened). Take some time to thank the gods or goddesses that joined you, or the energies involved in any spellwork completed. At this point of the closing, I ground any remaining energy by stabbing my athame into the ground in the centre. This personal circle space of mine can also used for coven gatherings which the circle is used by a group of witches together. That is basically it. Please note that this is only a basic example of one personal perspective to the opening and closing of protective circles and does not reflect the multitide of ways in which one can implement circles into their practice. The reason that I like to use this Labrinth style garden as a sacred space is because within grows herbs and medicinal plants, etc. that are useful in my craft and practices. As usual, if I can clarify further on my own thoughts and ideas or if you have questions, please feel free to send me an email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com or submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " What is the fae ?" Thank you for this question. My knowledge of fae comes from my own experience and may differ from other more advanced practitioners who work directly with the fae. So, I can only speak to what fae means to me. It is my understanding that the fae originally comes from folklore of European legends, specifically many Irish legends and stories. Fae are sometimes also referred to as fairfolk or fairies. Image of clover patch Working with the Fae is a gradual relationship with energies if nature that takes patience to create, and time to build. I started out with seeking out wild nature spirits and energies, making offerings in forests or meadows or by streams, etc. Sometimes, I think of it like approaching a small timid creature... You'll need to draw the fae to you first before you'll even know if it will pay any or further attention, work with you, or if it will just have fun with you. Protections are always benifitial and advised before a relationship is attempted to be established given that the fae can be known at times for mischeiviousness, trickory, desception, or mockory. However, not all of them are. And so, some say working with the fae can be risky. One witch I know even told me once that in their opinion, not being careful working with the fae can be unexpected and can even get down right dangerous. Image of St. John's Wart Some ways of protecting yourself against fae would be with the use of plants such as St. Johns Wart or four leaf clover. Also, is believed that the use of bells or hanging chimes will dispan or discourage fae from an area or property. Opening a circle can also provide containment to avoid uninvited fae influences, boosting confidence. Here is an example of opening a circle: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/opening-closing-a-circle In my personal experience, I would say that Fae is more like working with creature spirits and fauna spirits from the surrounding area within nature. Perhaps my perception is misconstruded due to my own experience working within hedge witchery. Though, I've had some very interesting and outstanding results from how I consider the fae and the ways in which I work with the wild fae energies in my practice. Connecting with often requires an envocation of the seven cardinal directions: East; South; West; North; Above; Below; Within. The Fae Star is a representation of this and for some witches this symbol is used instead of the pentagram. Also known as the Fairy Star, or Elven Star, in which each point also stands for the seven gateways to the Fae Realm, or for the seven ways of manifestation, and there may be more, depending on your practice. Many can instinctively feel fae presence around them. For others, there may be a physical representation, or an item or object seemingly placed in your path to find. Etc. It has been said to me by an experienced fae witch that if you make a marigold infusion and rub it around one's eyes (without getting in the eyes itself) then that can help a witch to physically see the reflection of fae energy. It is also believe that if you sit in a groove with specific types of trees present, specifically under a full moon that the fae my briefly appear to you. Myself, influenced by what little irish ancestry that I have, I simply started leaving specific spell remnants or small but kind offerings out on an outdoor alter dedicated to the purpose of connecting with nature energy. Sometimes an offering can be a simple cup of milk and a small piece of food made from all natural ingredients. A question or concern can be presented as a symbolic gesture or item left on the alter. Communication often comes in the form of an item being taken, or another item presented back to me by being found on the alter or near by for me to be drawn to and find. The message from that communication is derived from deep within my conciseness. When spell remnants that I have left on the alter appear to be taken, then, I can be sure that the nature which I connected with at the time may assist with the intention of my inner and outer workings. Spellwork deep within the forest Within many Pagan online communities there have been frequent and enthusiastic debates on whether the fae actually exist or not. Either way, it is mutually agreeable that there is nothing wrong with believing in the fae or nature spirits, fairies, etc. until it can purhaps one day be proven scientifically. However, you determine what's best for your practice. There are some practitioners of fae magick whom believe that they themselves are descendants of ancient fae beings. In which these witches may use specific identifying terms or pronouns, such as fae/faer, or a sidhe, which is a an Irish word for fairy folk. Or others. To-each-their-own. Witches all around the world work with the fae in a traditional sense and is not exclusive to regions of Europe due to the vast expanding colonization of the British empire over many centuries in the past and spreading their culture including magickal uses. If you have questions, past don't hesitate to ask a grey witch at AskaGreyWitch.com Update: Offering spell workings to fae was briefly mentioned in a more recent blog post https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/discarding-old-spells Discarding old spells - in case also helpful.

The submitted question covered in this blog: "How do you discard old used up spells that are finished?" Thank you so much for this very much appreciated question. This is a topic that can be controversial depending on beliefs and traditions. Personally, for me it depends on the specific spell. I often do compound spell work whereas i use the remnants of a spell in other similar spells over and over until nothing is left. For example, i may take what's left from a petition spell and burn it with the similar intention written. And then, afterwards collect the ashes and use again in another spell continuing the focus on the original intention further. There are also spells that i personally keep, such as protection or wards, etc. And, certain spells that i would cleanse, recharge and repurpose, such as some specific sigil work, or use of poppets, etc Depending on the intention of a specific spell, the remnants of that working may be handy for further spell workings, as mentioned in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/self-made-tools-within-my-craft Self made tools within my craft. Even with spell jars, depending on what the spell means for you, you may feel comfortable breaking the seals ending the jars' influences, removing and cleansing the contents and jar afterwards to use again for another intention. This is just one opinion, and there are many other opinions of others that vary. Some practitioners feel that a spell that has ran it's course should be disposed of to return the energies from which they came. It can create a transition and acceptance to the end of the spell being finalized through the intention of a symbolic action. That symbolic gesture sometimes resembles a passing of similar to death, which is why some practitioners bury spells in the ground as if grounding the energies in the earth. It may represent a letting go by watching the spell be taken away by the current of a stream or river if the remnants of the spell floats. Whether burying it or allowing nature to take it away, there is also the chance of discovery to consider. For example, while the intension may be to leave a spell jar undisturbed, there may be a chance that it could be unearthed, or discovered at some point in time whether it be due to natural events or processes such as erosion from water or wind, as tree grow buried items can be dislodged from roots penetrating the soil, or perhaps from landscaping or construction, even animals may dig it up, etc. Is it something you would want found? This previous blog entry briefly discusses the creation and burial of a witches bottle: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/creating-a-witch-s-bottle Of course, if you are planning to discard anything into nature, please be sure that the spell remnants are all natural and biodegradable so not to have harm come from your workings, such as contamination or disruption to the natural decomposition process of soil in the location. For example, spreading certain kinds of ashes can increase the ph levels of the surrounding dirt which can harm many plants that require more acidic soil in order to survive. It may even seem appropriate for some practitioners in their traditions to consider offering their spell workings to aspects of spirit, a passed loved one or ancestor, a deity, or the Fae, etc. as mentioned in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/working-with-fae Working with the Fae. Also, it should be mentioned that not everyone has the luxury of owning property or living close to a discrete and secure place to bury their finished spell workings. If flushing it down a toilet or throwing it in the garbage afterwards feels satisfactory, than so shall it be. Each practice can be different from each other's. It is all about intention and empowering our free will after all. This being said, I'd say to trust your instincts and follow your intuition. Do with your spell work remnants as what is environmentally friendly and feels right to you personally. What is your opinion? Please feel free to submit your own questions at www.askagreywitch.com Thank you for visiting my website and for reading my blog! Blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog: "Can you recommend any books that have spells in them?" Thank you for submitting this question! Along with the books recommended in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/book-recommendations Book recommendations, which some do contain examples of spellwork, I can also mention a few more books that also go in depth about magickal workings and spells, and a pagan lifestyle, etc. It should be mentioned that without I found these books helpful asking the ways of my practice, they did but define my practice completely. It's always important to go with what resonates with you in a practice of the craft. Please note that the books are shared here as examples of what I personally have read and found interesting or assistive and may help you find something if your own interest to read about, or expand your thinking in order to find your own resources. More book suggestions: Encyclopedia of Magickal Herbs , by Scott Cunningham (Expanded and Revised Edition) This revised and updated fifteenth anniversary edition contains the folklore and magickal properties of over 400 herbs. A comprehensive and valuable guide to the practice of green witchcraft. Scott Cunningham is a well recognised strong influence in the magickal community over the years. To Walk a Pagan Path , By Alaric Albertsson (Practical Spirituality for every day) With practical tips for integrating earth-centered spirituality into every aspect of life, not just on full moons and holidays. A guide to live a ful Pagan life. Alaric Albertsson has been a practicing pagan for over forty years. He is a founding member of Earendel Hearth, An Anglo-Saxon inhered, and he is also a member of the Druidic organization Ar Ndraiocht Fein. Alchemy of Herbs , by Rosalee De La Foret (Transform everyday ingredients into foods & remedies that heal) This guide helps understand how to match the properties of each plant to your own unique needs, for a truly personalized approach to health containing dozens of inspiring recipes and examines the history and modern day uses of many popular herbs supporting their healing properties through scientific studies and in depth research into herbal energies. The complete book of Incence, Oils & Brews , by Scott Cunningham (Learn the art of Magikal cookery) This book in effect is like a magikal cook book. It gives a large variety of example of spells and recipes while allowing plenty of latitude for experimentation and personalization. As well, discusses the basics to magic and the aspects of substitution. Scott Cunningham has created a huge amount of resources over the many active years of practice. The Book of Stones , by Robert Simmons & Naisha Ahsian (Revised and Expanded Edition) This is a very in depth and definitive guide to the world of crystals, minerals, gemstones and their metaphysical energies. This book teaches the scientific properties of minerals as well as the history and lore, elemental energies, chakra correspondences, and which stones work best together. It also offers the opinions of two different energy workers for each stone. Book of Shadows , By 'Unknown Author' (Spells, Charms, Potions, and Enchantments for Wiccans) This book contains many magikal spells from all around the world for a practitioner to write and create their own. It covers covers many of the types so you can refine and remould your practice to find the type that feels right to you. The author is left 'unknown' as the rights of the book are identified to "the creator of this work" and has been asserted in accordance with the copyrights and patents associated. -- These books mentioned above have been resourceful, in my opinion, with finding reasonable examples and advice on creating my own magickal associations, ingredients, spellworkings, rituals, and other integral parts of my practice. Have you read any of the mentioned books above? What was your opinion? Do you have a book that you would recommend? So you have a favorite book? Please feel free to share your thoughts! I'm also very interested in feedback. :) It is in hopes that this is helpful. Please feel free to submit any questions that you may have at AskaGreyWitch.com  or, suggestions or feedback is also welcome. Blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Do you believe in life after death?" Thank you for this very interesting question. I once was really afraid of death, until I laughed at myself when I realized that living is really the hard part. Veil between life and death Personally, as a medium who connects with spirits often, I do believe in our energy continuing after death in some way or either. I have explored the areas of "soul contracts" and "life paths", and as well as "reincarnation". It is with human instincts that we explore chances to learn valued lessons in our energetic journey. And so, It is my belief that after death the energy of the person continues to exist as it's carried by others, in spirit. After death is often described as a sense of resting and relaxing within energy - living is extremely hard! Even communication between the living and spirit is no easy task. In my experience, not only do we need to raise our vibration, spirit also need to lower vibration in order for both to breach the veil between life and death and reconnect with the memory of those presences. It is also believed that this veil is the thinnest during the time of Samhain. Spirit ritual More information about my Samhain traditions can be read about in a previous blog: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/the-origin-of-samhain My Samhain Traditions. Once spirit has "crossed over the bridge" between life and death, I believe that there are reunions with past friends and loved ones' energies as we see in funerals where family and friends gather to support each other in their loss. It is commonly believed in Seax Wicca that eventually, when ready, the spirit goes through whatever energetic agencies of the universe to be reborn back to earth. Within each life lived there is something necessary to the soul's development that is learned or experienced. The lives may be long or short, depending on how quickly the necessary learning or experience. Usually there is no memory of a previous life during the present one. However, Each and every center of a being's energy, also commonly referred to as the chakras, all contain memories of past life experiences within our subconscious mind, also known as the deep shadow self. Many believe this has been demonstrated through life regression techniques, meditation experiences, intense shadow work or with the help of connecting with inner aspects of self, etc. via many more ways, these memories can be unlocked and glimpsed upon. However, only as much as we need to know will be revealed. If we knew the complete details of the outcomes of our own fates, we would not experience the learning of the lessons destined in which we were meant to learn for ourselves while alive. Afterall, the journey is quite often the lesson itself. Spell work and ritual The place of spiritual rest and relaxation mentioned above, in regards to an afterlife, is also commonly known by Seax Wiccans as the Summerland. This is a conceptualization of many Wiccan understanding of an afterlife. Some Wiccan traditions describe the Summerland like a land of eternal summer where the grassy fields are always green with clean rivers flowing etc. However, some others may see it as a realm where energy coexists and without forms, converging with the energies of the Gods and Goddesses. And, there are other depictions. But, does it even exist? As Raymond Buckland puts it in his book titled, "Wicca for Life": "Summerland is, as we might expect, a beautiful place. What we know of it is what we have gleaned from people who have returned from near-death experiences, and from accounts obtained by genuine mediums who communicate with the dead." There are many outlooks and opinions to this raised question. As I, myself identify as a humanist, within my own personal non-theistic belief, to me, a human spirit seems to be a compilation of energies that we carry with us as human beings through memory, and can be used to our advantage in certain ways though common human ability. After a loved one passes away, we carry their energetic expressions with us as memories and presences, etc. And, humans can reconnect with those energetic expressions through out their lives causing experiences that resemble spirit communication. These familiar resemblances can be drawn to the surface of the mind to sense, analyse, and determine inner meanings within ourselves, commonly referred to as "spirit messages", or "messages from passed loved ones". It's more about what we know of in spirit of, rather than directly communicating with that specific loved one. It is in hopes that this is helpful. If I can elaborate further, please don't hesitate to let me know, this question is very much appreciated. Feel free to reach out with more questions at www.AskaGreyWitch.com or take a look through other submited questions posted as previous blog entries.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Can I substitute certain tools required for a spell?" This is an interesting question regarding tools, and finding substitutions for items. Thank you to whom submitted it. The first thing that should be mentioned is, tools and items can be helpful to focus our intentions. However, are not actually required to do witchcraft. As mentioned in this previous bog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/self-made-tools-within-my-craft Self made tools within my craft. Although not necessary, tools and items within rituals or spells can help to associate more with the intentions of workings. For example, many feel a wand helpful to direct energy. It doesn't need to be done with an elaborately polished and finished wand purchased from a metaphysical shop. Personally, I use the fingers of my hand when my wand isn't available. However, a similarly shaped stick found from the ground surrounding at the time can also suffice. This can be a beautiful way to incorporate nature more into your practice and when the workings are complete the stick can be returned back to the surroundings. This can also be done with stones, pine cones, or really whatever resonates with you. Some other common household item substitutions: A mason jar, instead of a small cauldron A bath rub, instead of a large cauldron Crushed egg shells, instead of salt A stone, instead of a crystal A tealite candle, instead of a ritual candle A tray, in use of an alter Long grass, instead of string or ribbon Small coins, to represent prosperity Bread-ties to represent protection ... Really, whatever is available to you!!!! Even a small box of home office supplies can be extremely useful as one may find elastics or ribbon to represent binding; or, clips to represent attachment or retainment; or, a small nail to represent foundation or holding-on, or determination; etc. ...Purhaps you may resonate staples with bringing-together? ... Or perhaps staple are more restrictive, or puncturing, etc. One can look at the same item from different points of perspective, gaining different associations that can be used. ...It is up to you!!! That's the point afterall, how you resonate with the associations involved with that item or tool and also in which how it is being used. Really any item that you associate with a specific intention can be worked with and used to draw out from within the energies used for the working. Even very simple items such as paper clips, mason jars, etc. can be super resourcetul and helpful in a magickal practitioner. I tend to collect objects and items regularly for this purpose that I see along my way, or aside the path I'm walking, that I may find use for later on. Such as, stones, matches, coins, little charms, buttons, and others. This little habit becomes very handy when in need for a symbolic representation of my intentions and I don't have the means to gather supples, or spend money. It should also be mentioned that unless provided by nature, any item used within workings should be cleansed or consecrated, and charged with intention before use - depending on your practice. With all the above said, YES - you certainly can substitute tools and items within spellwork as long as you can associate with the replacement item in the same or similar way. Thank you so much for visiting my website and reading my blog! Was this helpful? Please feel free to share your feedback at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/contact it would be greatly appreciated.

While I am sorting out the technology and getting the upcoming video ready to be posted, I thought I'd answer a simple question to begin: “Why start this blog or channel?” While exploring online myself, I have become increasingly aware of how many practitioners of energy work that I've found online are women and how little representation there is of male practitioners. This sparked the idea that maybe I could share some of my own perspective, thoughts and opinions on a practice, traditions and related topics that might interest or help others. Along the way maybe I can help to clear up some of the misunderstandings or misconceptions that seem to still exist today. For starters: the term "witch" means "the wise". It is actually non gendered and so can mean either a man, or a woman, or non binary, etc. Really, anyone! Sometimes known as ”cunning folk”, can be any age, or work at any job, be of any orientation, class, ethnicity, can even be a part of any religion or belief. There is such a thing as a Catholic witch, for example. Witches are not confined to the Wiccan religions of today. Witchcraft is an expression of intention and is usually guided by a form of ritual. Therefore, it's my personal opinion that what is often referred to as "magick" is neither good or evil, light or dark, white or black, etc. it just is . It is the ultimate intention of the individual caster that is either noble or not, etc. Secondly, some don't seem to realize that Witchcraft and Wicca are not the same thing. Wicca is usually considered a religion that involves magickal practitioners. Not all witches are Wiccan. However, most Wiccans are witches. Some of the biggest misconceptions that I have personally experienced come from hollywood fictional ideas that are showcased in stories, movies and television series of what a witch is. I am referring to the stereotypical view of a witch must be an old ugly women, with green skin, has warts and orange or silver hair, pointed black hats, able to levitating or fly on a broom, throw fire from one's hands, or whatever imagination one may be entertained with. It's great entertainment, but that's all it is... Entertainment. Even now a days, modern shows that involve witchcraft still are extremely exaggerated and usually do not reflect what it means to be an actual witch. In my opinion, some of the wild ideas of these books, shows and movies continue or create many disillusions and misunderstandings and sometimes even fear. I hope that by sharing some about what I do, may help others to understand or not be afraid. I'm only human. It's my fundamental belief that anyone can use intention to their advantage. No matter how many paths of the craft I've explored, be it green, hedge, cottage, kitchen, psychic, song, and astro… no matter how much I’ve learn and do in my craft, I am always still learning along my way. I relying very strongly on my intuition. I work with specific aspects of my own human nature, and make my own infusions, potions, salves, candles, and oracles I personally scrye and work with runes, tarot, pendulums, palmistry and tasseography. I've made and connected many tools, crystals and herbs to aid me in various workings. More about myself is available at: www.askagreywitch.com/greywitchbryan or about the Sacred Meadow Circle at: www.askagreywitch.com/coven Please stay tuned for some answers to upcoming questions submitted by visitors like you. Topics I will mention in my blog or possibly make videos about will be related to my practice and craft as a male grey witch. Thank you for checking out my website! Please consider sharing or subscribe so not too miss any new content -- Soon to start!!! Take good care always, and blessed be

Submitted questions covered in this blog/video: "What is 'smoke cleansing'? And how is it done?" "What is 'black salt'? And how is it made?" Thank you to those whom submitted these questions! In this video I offer an example of smoke cleansing, and how I make black salt. Although the questions were submitted separately, given how these topics are related to eachother in my practice, I thought I'd combine these questions into one video. In my practice, a main source of collecting ash is from burning incense and herb bundles used for smoke cleansings. To do smoke cleansing, gather associated herbs that resonate with your intention and place in a fireproof bowl, dish or cauldron. These could be thyme, pine, cedar, lavender, sage, juniper, peppermint, rosemary, mugwart, etc. For this example, I am burning rosemary and mugwart. I associate these herbs with intuition and protection. Most of the herbs used in my practice are grown in my garden during the growing season and then collected, dried and stored. Once the herbs are contained, it can be lit on fire to produce the smoke. Then, waft the smoke around where/what is to be cleansed. Always being careful with fire, lite the herbs well so that ambers are visible, without flame and the amount of smoke is appealing. Now it can be used for cleansing. There are different uses for smoke cleansings. For example, to cleanse yourself, waft the smoke around you. Or, cleansing your alter or work space. Or, cleansing personal objects, such as crystals. With intention, smoke cleansing can reduce stagnant energy and remove negative energy from ourselves, objects, or our surroundings. Burning herbs will produce ash that can be collected and stored until there is enough ash to make black salt or other protection herb mixes. Be sure they all of the herb has burned and that only ash is remaining. Remove any unburned stems or leaves from the ash, if necessary. After the herbs have been burned and no longer producing smoke (and have cooled down), the ash can be saved and stored in a jar or container until needed. Personally, I like to use a funnel to reduce mess. Ash is extremely powdery and can form a bit of a cloud of poured to quickly. Do not allow unburned herb to mix with the ash and hold them back while pouring the ash into the container to be stored in. I usually just hold it back with my thumb while pouring the contents gently tapping the edge of the bowl to loosen any clumped ash. And, I like to be sure all the ash has been collected and not stuck in the funnel, etc. Slightly tapping can loosen the ash. The ash should appear loose in the jar or container and may require a regular 'shake' every so often so not too clump together. The container can be kept someplace darkdark until it is need. Ash can be used in a variety of traditions, rituals and spells. Once the ash has been collected, it can be used to make black salt. Black salt is personally used in spells and protection herb mixes. To make ash into black salt, add consecrated white salt to it. Personally, I like to use Himalayan pink salts to make black salt. So not too be too course, I like to put into my pastel and mortar to break down into into a fine salt stone powder before addingadding to the ash. If you are using granulated white salt, then there is no need to use a pestle and mortar as it should already be fine enough to use. FYI: Witches black salt is NOT the same thing as cuisine black salt which isa popular mineral ingredientin some Indian foods. Other sources for obtaining ash can be from a bon fire, or firepit, incense, ash trays, campfires, scrapings from a used pot or pan, or just burn herbs to make ash. Some make with finely ground pepper. If you burn in a cauldron, remnants from the bottom can also be collected and added to a black salt protection mix. Basically, any kind of all can be used to make black salt. However, past close attention toto personal associations with the ash source. The basic method of making black salt is to literally mix the same into the ash with intentionintention of using for protection and spellwork. I'm addition to being a powerful ingredient for protection magick, it can also be used in folk tradition for curses, hexes and bindings. It is important to charge the black salt with your energy afterwards while keeping in mind what your later intented use for it is. In this example, I circle the ash in a counter clockwise motion to intent to remove negativity when applied to spellwork or protection. That's basically how I make black salt. Adding cedar and rosemary to black salt creates a powerful protection mix that can be said to protect an area or property. Unfortunately, the sound quality of my microphone was not up to par in order for me to dictate and speak through the video which is the reason I mainly used captions. I apologize for the delay that was caused to post this video/post and also in advance if this makes the video hard to follow. It is my hope to eventually get a proper mic and better lighting options to increase the quality of my videos in the future. In the meantime, please feel free to send to me your suggestions, helpful advice or critique of my video. Be honest -- I can take it! If I can clarify further or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Thank you for checking out my blog! * BLOG POST UPDATE : Perhaps it also should've been mentioned in this video (shown above) that smudging with smoke and smoke cleansing are not the same thing. Therefore, I didn't think to mention it and in hindsight, I see this as a mistake. For more information about this, please see my blog titled "Opened practices vs closed practices": www.askagreywitch.com/post/open-practices-vs-closed-practices

Submitted questions covered in this blog: "Did you sell your soul in order to become a witch?" What!?! No!!! Whom would I even sell it too? LOL Seriously though, Thank you to whom submitted this question -- This is perhaps one of those misconceptions that there are about witches in general. It should be mentioned that there is no devil in witchcraft, or Wicca. In fact, in my practice, Gods and Goddesses are voewed as representations to aspects of our own human nature and as well, do not control me. I do devote myself to my intentions and humanistic beliefs. However, the choice is all mine and have sold nothing to be who I am. In fact, I’d say the opposite, I have grown as an individual person because of being a practitioner of magick. I believe that free will is our own and can never be controlled. Even with witchcraft. No one can control another person, not with spells, not with hexes, not with fear. There is only influence, and if the influences are followed through with ...by choice! I think this question could be interpreted differently More so, perhaps this person who asked this question may be wondering, “How did I become a witch?” Or maybe even “what makes me a wiccan?”, ...maybe? And so, I’ll take this moment to talk a little bit about that. ...Sooo, rather... I titled this blog as... "How did I become a witch" instead. In-a-nutshell: It's not that I 'became' a witch. I've been expressing myself in the ways of the craft almost my whole life. It's just who I've always been. Casting my intention to be manifested has always come natural to me from a young age. The earliest spell I can remember casting was from when I was about four years old, discreetly drawing symbolic images with a wax crayon on the back of my parents furniture with intention to bring peace and calm to the disruptive household and the disfunctional family enviroment that I was raised in. To my recollection, it worked and I remember re-charging them to continue their positive influence. Even, to my surprise - I didn't feel in as much trouble as expected when the drawings were eventually found by my parents. Due to knowing the Hollywood fairytales, Catholic imagery and stereotypical view of witches in society, I did not always think of myself as a growing up witch. Not being old, not owning a pointy hat, nore having warts, and even the fact that I am male, I myself was taught all the mistruths about witches and did not associated the workings that I was crafting as witchcraft -- even though it absolutely was -- looking back. If you look it up in the dictionary the meaning of the word 'witchcraft', it is rather skewed: From Merriam-Webster Dictionary https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/witchcraft: -- "Witchcraft definitions: 1. a: the use of sorcery or magic b: communication with the devil or with a familiar 2. :an irresistible influence or fascination 3. a: rituals and practices that incorporate belief in magic and that are associated especially with neo-pagan traditions and religions (such as Wicca ) Practitioners of Wicca … use the tools … such as the broom (a purifying symbol), the wand, candles, crystals and the knife …. They refer to their practices as witchcraft … — Lesley Wright b: (less commonly used) a tradition or religion that involves the practice of Feminist witchcraft sees women's oppression and environmental abuse, which they argue are intimately linked, as firmly rooted in patriarchal religions. — Wendy Griffin Wicca, which emerged in the 1940s in England, is the original form of modern Pagan Witchcraft. — Meg Yardley" -- No wonder I was confused growing up! Even though I grew up in a Catholic home, my beleifs remained Pagan and nature oriented as I developed as a coming citizen. Celebrating pagan holidays and occasions myself euphorically as I became a teenager, I also taught myself the basics of traditional Wicca. As an adult, coming to terms with the true nature of my craft, the balancing of energies that I was doing, and realizing the misunderstandings that have existed for centuries, I began to identify as a magickal practitioner of Witchcraft. Thereby since call myself a witch. So then, what makes me a Wiccan? Also many years into my adulthood, I did become Wiccan officially. As mentioned in a previous post [ https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/why-start-this-blog-channel ] witchcraft and Wicca are not the same thing. I've been Wiccan since 2016. I completed an initiatory process of learning as a Seax Gesith (Anglo Saxon tradition) in 2019. My initiation process basically consisted of 3 stages of development: For the first year and one day, I was taught, researched and studied/learned as much as I could about Wicca and it's history and evolution as a religion, Anglo Saxon deity representations, working tools, rituals, ceremonies, etc. whilst worked at expanding my practice into new areas of energy and magick. For another year and a day, I implemented what I've learned and by this point I had formed a daily practice around my magick, rituals, and traditions. During so, also recognizing relationships with spirit and aspects of my own human nature. Building from my spiritual expressions and personal humanist beliefs, I continue to celebrating the wiccan holidays and rituals, etc. in my own unique ways. Then, for the third year and a day, while continuing my practice and traditions through out each complete turn of the wheel of the year, others began to present themselves to me whom where starting their own journeys in their own craft on a Wiccan path, or in witchcraft, and began reaching out to me with questions, or giving me opportunity to share my points of view. This really seemed to help others with all the positive feedback that I received. By sharing information from my own perspective, or helping others to find the information that they were looking for, I found a way for me to support other practitioners of magick in a way that was meaningful for them, and also to myself. (I have never really stopped helping others it ways of the craft since.) After the three year and three day full cycle of initiation I had my initiation ceremony which was one of the most personal and magickal evenings of my life. That moment of completing my initiation still inspires me today and makes me proud to be me and the wiccan man that I am. I have continued to live a magickal life as a witch in the Seax Wiccan way since. Over the years, I have met so many interesting people who also identify as a witch with very different practices and rituals than my own. Learning about others' traditions and individual ways of the craft has really expanded my own practice by confirming for me that my path is right for myself, and that it's totally ok to be different. It's ok to be on seperate paths in life. Because, we can still learn from eachother, with acceptance. Thank you for reading my blog! It is my hope that this has helped to clear up some misunderstanding for whom asked this question, and maybe for others as well. Please consider sharing my channel or subscribe so not too miss any new content. Stay tuned for more answers (from my personal perspective) to some upcoming questions submitted by viewers like you. Some questions have started coming in and it should be mentioned that ONLY questions related to my practice and craft as a male grey witch will be acknowledged. Also, let's please keep comments respectful with the sharing of opinions, shall we? Take good care always, and blessed be.

Submitted questions covered in this blog: "How often do you use magick, cast spells, etc.?" Actually, I feel like magick has always been involved in every part of my life, through out each day. So, to answer this question, I thought I'd describe a typical day in my life as a grey witch. Thank you so much to whom submitted this question. Each morning (almost every day) starts early with tea, meditation and a personal self tarot reading for my day. My crystal ball is often used for focus and staying objective during readings. I will typically do a five card pyramid spread for myself describing the kind of day I can look forward to. During, I will stir intentions for myself in my tea and keep that in mind while I drink it. Sometimes I will think of an affirmation that I then write on my hand using a magickal black ink that I create myself beforehand from black salt and a plant based alcohol. The word chosen usually relates to or reminds me of my self tarot reading messages or the intention set for my day, and are written in a Theban style alphabet so that I am the only one who can read it through out the day. The remnants of the tea leaves in the bottom of the cup can also be read for messages. If I can expect a busy day, I may secure the affirmation on my skin by applying a basic bees wax salve over it to protect it from running or smudging. Personally, I've known myself to sometimes do glamour spells with self made ointments and salves to get ready for the day. No, that's not for making myself feel pretty -- younger however. I wake up early in the mornings because I do care for hens (chickens) and so each morning before sunrise they are given fresh water and are fed. Eggs are collected and again through out the day as they are laid (well, as soon as I can go get them, bring them in and clean the eggs if needed. The shells are not discarded after use and are stored and made into ingredients for spells, or crushed and spread in the garden to protect vegetable plants from the many rabbits that live around my house. As a refresher, I take a daily walk through the forests surrounding my home. Sometimes, twice a day, I can be found wandering away from the formed paths to guide and direct myself through the brush and trees. I may collect small items to use as offerings once I'm back home. To get the day started for everyone within my home, I will often dress an eight hour burn candle with inscriptions, oils and herbs to be burned throughout the day. I often tried to help my children retain focus and interest while doing their school studies remotely during the pandemic restrictions. The candle is usually placed in the center of my home on the main floor of the house in a fire proof dish or candle holder for everyone inside to feel it's influence of healing, or clarity of thought, flow of joy, blessings or sometimes protection (depending on my intention set). It is often set with an incense burning along side it, and I will ring my singing bowl to encourage calm and relaxation. Also due to the past pandemic restrictions, my spouse and I has to work from home mainly. And so, I am able keep a close watch on the candle while it burns through out the day -- I never leave a candle unsupervised!!! While working on my during-the-day tasks, I might light an additional incense or spray a spritz in the air that I've made to help encourage productivity or to de-stress if needed. I may also hold a tiger eye crystal in my pocket. If doing some house keeping I will use self made infusions and cleansing vinegar solution as cleaners and cleansers. I may also hold aqua aura quartz in my pocket while, or another stone of reverence. Being the very busy household that it most often is, there are times in the day when I need I moment to just sit and breath or get some fresh air. In this kind of moment, I will do an invisibility spell so not too be found for a moment of peace and quiet. When I do this, I'm not actually turning myself literally invisible. But whilst, no one seems to be able to find me or look where I am when searching for me when I do it. My family often says that I disappear and accuse me of momentarily escaping this plain of existence. 😉 As my full time business, others can book intuitive reading sessions with me at different times in the day, or regarding mediumship, and/or consultation, etc. These sessions can either take place in person or remotely over Zoom or another video chat platform. When doing so, I'll setup my reading table in a descrete location in the house. I can do distant energy reading with the aid of my large crystal ball. Occasionally, I also attend markets and festivals where I give intuitive tarot readings through out my attendance there. These events can sometimes require travel, long days, and some of them go on into the evenings. Some afternoons, I may do simple rituals, such as smoke cleanse most of the house with a dried herb blend of my own if I feel needed. I may also update and recharge any protection workings that are on going. Consisting of home grown and then dried herbs such as habiscus, rose, rosemary, cedar, pine, and some other very common plants and weeds, or in extreme cases, sage which also grows in my garden. Most of my dried herbs and plants that I use are from my personal garden that was harvested during the end of the last growing season and then stored to be used throughout the fall/winter/spring seasons. During the growing season, I would need to tend to the gardens before the heat of the summer day, usually in the mornings or evenings, watering, weeding, etc. Sometimes, during the day or towards the evening I will take a short moment to acknowledge spirits, guides, deities, or whomever I've felt around me or influencing me recently around that time. Cooking for dinners quite often involve kitchen magick of love, healing, protection, and blessings for those whom share the meal. With a large family, I have a huge wooden 100+ year old harvest table that I absolutely love! It is blessed regularly and used for all kinds of feasts and meals, celebrations, rituals, workings, magickal preparations, daily meals, planning, discussions, etc. As all of the activity of my busy household calms down towards the end of the day, late evenings are often the best times for me to set my intentions to manifest, scrye, meditate further, do shadow work or do other spellwork -- especially during new moon or full moon phases. Evening rituals usually involve the opening of a circle, or other protections (depending), as well as calling on spirit, or deity, consecration of tools and/or supplies, magickal workings or spells, libation or showing thanks, or offerings and closing of the circle, then a cleansing of the area and a blessing. If a coven meeting has been arranged or scheduled, I will attend usually in person for the evening at the agreed upon location and those gatherings can go on into the night depending on what the group is working on. More info about my coven is available at www.askagreywitch.com/coven Almost every night I may cleanse myself with a large selenite wand before I get myself ready for sleep. I may write in my Book of Shadows or my Grimoire. To assist with a restful sleep I will use a lavender oil that I infused beforehand, or if I am planning dream work, I may use mugwart or rosemary before falling asleep to assist with dream recall in the morning. It's effective enough to just skip the herb under my pillow while I sleep. I have used candle magick to have a better and deeper sleep before. Rarely, but sometimes, protections or energy sheilds can be charged or raised for while I am sleeping so not to be disturbed. My Book of Mirrors is kept beside my bed or on my main alter to be readily available to scribe or analyse any dreams, or describe my experience in the moment after waking up if I feel I have astral traveled in my sleep (which has happened), or visits from dream walking spirits, etc. The next day starts early and basically a simular cycle continues! Adjusting and adapting to whatever is grown my way for each day depending 😉 If I can clarify further or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com. Thank you for reading about my typical day!!!

Submitted questions covered in this blog: "Can you describe what Shadow Work looks like in your practice?" Shadow work can look different for each practitioner. As also described in my Tarot website www.staffordtarot.com, I use shadow work regularly as a way for me to better know my inner self, strengths, weaknesses, ego, etc. In recognizing my own energy, I am able to then separate myself from the energy of my surroundings, during readings or energy from others. This allows for a strong objective-ness during intuitive readings, or not too have my own ego to interfere with my intention. It's called Shadow work because it involves getting to know every part of ourselves that can not be seen by others and sometimes not even realized by ourselves. It can be difficult to explore darker sides of our personalities, or parts of ourselves that we try to hide from the world. But, learning to face all emotions regarding past experiences or feelings that are kept deep within can be empowering in itself building confidence and inner strength. One way to get started that I recommend is by keeping a journal or diary where the entries are meant to create little reflections of yourself over time. Given this purpose, I like to call this a book of mirrors. In it, entries can include written stories, activities or exercises, or whatever you can use to personally analyse thoughts or feelings on a particular topic. A good example of one of these activities is the creation of what's commonly known as a bucket list. Generally speaking, a bucket list is a sort of checklist of things to which one wants to accomplish or experience in their life before they die. Looking at how many of those items remain unchecked can help to create a plan of action before opportunities are missed. Another example would be writing all the things that you do not prefer about yourself, or wanting to change. Whether it's laziness, or lack of passion, or other vices. This can help to understand the alterations or changes needed from our own behaviour in order to make ourselves healthier or happier. There are so many ways to which this can be applied. Exploring and understanding the hidden truths of ourselves allows us to know our true and pure intentions. This is powerful when working with energy. In my opinion, this makes Shadow work an important place to get started for any practitioner of magick. -- Taken from my website staffordtarot.com Creating a self awareness during meditations or some psychic exercises, I strengthen my focusing abilities. I do alot of journaling, keep a diary of events, track progress of my workings and practices, and I also keep a Grimoire for future planning of spells. I would consider all of these as shadow work involved activities. Shadow work has also been instrumental in my mediumship journey. The more clearly that I can sense my own energy compared to others' the more accurately I can sense the energy of spirits "reaching out" to me. The better that I know my inner shadow self the better I am able to sense the presences of energy of and within my surroundings. Hense, why I very often say how important Shadow work has been to my own practice. Before and after strong magickal workings are other times that I use shadow work regularly. Especially planning and designing workings and rituals in advance. Being that it is intention that energetically powers spellwork, I beleive that knowing the true intentions of my inner shadow self has been key in many successful manifestations in my life. It has allowed me to sense when balance of energies is acheivable which shaped my path as a witch that I was/am in fact a grey witch influencing all kinds of energies. Even within the mundane there's nothing wrong with planning ahead to be sure to acheive specific goals or outcomes. In my opinion shadow work is done by everyone in some way or form at any time that we analyse ourselves or work through our own feelings and thoughts. Even counseling, such as therapy is a form of shadow work in my view. If interested, please feel free to check out https://www.askagreywitch.com/shadowwork for more ideas for shadow work journaling exercises. Thanks to whom submited this question, and thank you for checking out my blog(s). If you have questions yourself, please feel free to submit your comments and questions from the homepage at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Update :. I expanded further on the topic of shadow work in a more recent blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-expanded

The submitted question covered in this blog/video : "How do you make sigils?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. I make magickal sigils often, And I use the more common way to create them. By combining consonants to form a symbol that can be charged with intention. I explain most of it in this video: There are multiple techniques to create a sigil. In this video, I'm going to focus on the most common way to make them using letters of a word. For the purpose of this example, I've decided to use an oracle deck to choose the word for me that I will make a sigil from. Phrases and sentences can also be the focus of the suck being made. The word that I will use for this example is "T R A N S F O R M A T I O N" A transformation sigil can be used with the intention of big changes to come in the near future. Be sure to write down your intention with a sentence, phrase, or word that you have chosen to make the sigil from. Examples: "More confident at work"; "Bryan Stafford will win the lottery"; "Manifest healing" -- Be specific with your desires. To get started, you will need a piece of parchment or paper, and a pencil, pen, or marker to write with. I like to begin with the first letter, "T" for this example. Then I added the next letter, "R". Be creative and feel satisfied by the placement of each letter. Skipping all vowels and repeated consonants. The letters to work with here are, "T R N S F M". So, in this example, the next letter to include is "N". The letters can actually be added to the sigil in any order providing not to be repeatedly used. And, don't forget to skip vowels. Next, I added the "F". Device carefully. Then, I added the "M". Charge each letter with the energy of your desire as you write. Take the time that you feel that you need to create your sigil. Last, I added the"S". Runes and other symbols can also be implemented into the sigil. I added positive 'Flow' in different directions for this example. When completed, with focus on your intention circle the sigil the times. This is a convinient time to say an incantation if you'd like. Can be something simple, like "With this sigil, being to mea positive transformation. So more it be, so shall it be, so blessed be.". Focus on the new sigil design and associate with the desire. For this example, "positive changes coming". Charge the sigil with the associated intention, such as "a positive change coming my way". This same technique can also be applied with the use of a Theban alphabet / character set to make the studio the same way: using only consonants without repeating letters from the word, sentence or phrase written in Theban lettering. You can also use all lower case, as shown in the video, or uppercase letters. It is your choice. Another technique used to make sigils is with the use of numerology, and a 3x3 square chart (see video @ 03:30 for sample). A=1, B=2, C=3, D=4, E=5, F=6, G=7, H=8, I=9, J=1, K=2, L=3, M=4, N=5, O=6, P=7, Q=8, R=9, S=1, T=2, U=3, V=4, W=5, X=6, Y=7, Z=8, Another technique that is similar is with the use of a letter circle chart (see video @ 03:58 for sample). And, there are other techniques, such as Pictorial sigils which is created with images to represent the intention within the sigil. Another, is with automatic writing, closing your eyes and scribble while meditating and allow with the open or pencil to intuitively form a sigil. And more! (Can be searched online). Once I have a sigil created, I will sometimes surround it with symbols of runes that that I associate with my intention for it's use afterwards. The sigil can be implemented into candle magick by placing a charged candle over the sigil and allowing it to burn the wax down completely. A grounding powder (made with cinnamon bark) can be sprinkled over the candle to give this candle spell magickal extra boost! There are many uses and ways to benifit from sigils: Stir into tea, coffee and other drinks. Place inside the bottoms of your shoes Paint on your skin Burn into wooden spoons, or tools, table tops, alter or work spaces. Draw onto discuss and entrances Place under your bed, chair, etc. Paint onto rocks, carve into sticks, Draw into the sand or dirt, Write into a leaf or piece of paper and burn it to release it's energy. Stitch into clothing, pillow cases, blankets, towels, quilt, etc. Place behind your phone case, Draw onto mirrors, or on the wall behind a mirror, Carve into the edge of candles, Bring to your place of employment, Or carry it with you, in your purse, or wallet, Use as a book mark, it place within your book of shadows, Carve into ice, and allow to melt releasing it's energy, Hide a sigil under carpet, being wallpaper, or paint over it, ...the possibilities are endless!!! When using Oracle or tarot cards, I always take time to discharge the cards and to thank the deck for its assistance. Destroying a sigil, such as burying or catching it on fire, will release it's energy to the universe. That is basically it. -- Here are the templates for a couple of sigil creations. As always, I am happy to clarify anything here. If you have questions, please feel free to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com. Thank you for reading my blog or viewing my video.

Submitted question covered in this blog/picture: "What importance do full moons have, witchcraft-wise?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. In my spiritual practice the moon is very important, especially full moons. From my perspective, the different phases of the moon can help focus different intention and to time spellwork accordingly. We all feel the effects of the moon whether we realize it or not. I feel the best way to answer this question is to briefly explain each moon phase, including full moons: For example, a new moon is often referred to a time of new beginnings. It's the beginning of a new cycle and so is considered the best time to start something new or to learn a new trait, or take up a new hobby, etc. It's no coincidence that many people instinctually start new projects moreso around new moon phases than any other time of any given month. The waxing moon is often referred to as a time of growth, development, or achievement. Sowing seeds during a new moon phase allows the plants to grow more effectively as the moon's light grow thereafter. This is due to the effect the moon has on water. As the light of the moon grows along its surface, so does the intended intention for that time. It's simmilar for a waning moon. But reversed, it's often referred to as the time to focus on release, disguarding, or letting go. As the light of the moon shrinks across its surface, so also does the intended intention for that time. That being said, a full moon has the biggest energetic impact. It has a significant effect on everything from weather, the ocean tides, animal behaviour, and even a heightened awareness within people. It's no coincidence that many have trouble sleeping during full moon phases and not because of the additional light at night. People often observed stranger than normal behavior of others during a full moon. The full moon represents effect and power. (Back to the question) ... That being said, why is this important in witchcraft? Spellwork often revolves around these energetic properties of the moon phases. A new moon is considered the best time for divination and shadow work. A wanning moon is considered the best time for a cord cutting ritual, or a banishment spell. A waxing moon is considered the best time to magickally bring something into your life. Given that full moons are so powerful, it is considered the best time for energetic charging of tools, crystals, making moon water, etc., As well as important witchcraft workings, coven gatherings and group spellwork, and so on. -- Picture taken from my old personal Book of Shadows. For instance, moon water is made by simply leaving a container, jar or bowl of water out in the Moon light to be charged by the energetic properties of the full moon. Many see it as a monthly cleansing and empowerment ritual to be done with crystals, tools and other personal objects or future spell work useables. It's important to know that lunar eclipses always happen during full moons and can be powerful when focusing on the entirety of the moon phases within one night. This can require punctiliousness and endurance to do that kind of complicated working. Be wary with spells associated with the Moon during an Ecliptic Full Moon. In my experience the transitory energies of the eclipse can cause unexpected charging of unintended energies. For example, changing the charge in the making of moon water under not just a full moon, but one that transitions through all moon phases. It should be mentioned that the above is described in terms of my spirituality in witchcraft only and does not also detail the importance of the full moon within Wiccan religious practices which can vary depending on the branch of Wicca being discussed. It is in hopes that this is helpful even though only touches briefly on this very large topic. If I can expand further, please let me know. As always, questions are much welcome and can be submitted at www.askagreywitch.com Thank you for reading my blog! Update : Some information has been written about making moon water in a newer blog entry at https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/full-moon-to-do-or-not-to-do And, about full moons is expanded on in the newer blog entry called Full Moon: To do, or Not to do https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/full-moon-to-do-or-not-to-do

The submitted question covered in this blog/picture: "Do you give tarot readings?" Thank you for submitting this question after viewing my video on sigils www.askagreywitch.com/post/sigil-work as mentioned in the submission, it was noticed that I used a tarot deck in that video. Actually, I do give tarot readings professionally and rune readings regularly. More information on this is available on my other website www.staffordtarot.com . If interested, below are some tips on how to learn to do rune or tarot readings for yourself: Find a rune set or tarot deck that you like. There are many different kinds of runes and cards that can be used for excellent readings. The most common rune set is the Viking Runes. The most common tarot deck is the Rider Waite deck. There are many other tarot decks the use the same or similar symbolism and meanings as the Rider Waite illustrations. There are also other decks that are completely different and have their own design. Take your time to find the rune set or tarot deck that speaks to you. When you have purchased your new runes or cards, or made them yourself, keep it in a special pouch, or wrap them in a special clothe, and somehow personalize them to make them your own. Some sleep with them under their pillow for the first few weeks to charge with their energy. Others place certain types of crystals with them when not in use. Always keep them covered to remain dust free and they will last longer. Do what feels right to you in creating a relationship with your own personal runes or tarot deck. Spend some time getting to know the runes or cards. For runes, study the origins and meanings of each and keep in mind your own interpretations. What does each rune 'say' to you? For tarot, lay out the entire deck. You can separate the Higher Arcana cards, Court cards, and Lower Arcana cards at first if that helps to focus on the differences between these groups within common decks. Go through the deck and familiarize yourself with each card's symbolisms. What does each card 'say' to you? Whether you are working with runes or tarot cards, be objective, and trust your instincts. Most runes sets and tarot decks will come with an instruction book that can be used at first as a general guideline. However, eventually you should reach a point when you feel confident to read the runes or cards without these descriptions. As you go through the runes or cards more you'll begin to form a kind of relationship as you learn the cards meanings, including your own interpretations. Follow your intuition. Consider how each rune or card may mean something different according to where and how it is placed in your layout or spread. If the interpreted meanings of your runes or cards do not seem to fit with your subject or question, write down those details and watch for events to unfold over the next few days or so - sometimes meanings can make more sense afterwards. Some forewarnings may not make sense until 'it' happens. In the beginning, you're going to have difficulty reading a complicated layout or spread. Especially, if you haven't built a relationship with the runes or cards (getting to know them well). I'd suggest to start with a simple layout or spread first (1 rune/card draw, or a 3-5 runes draw or cards spread for example). Then, when you feel confident learn the more challenging methods, such as a full rune casting, or full tarot spreads (5-9 cards spread, or the commonly used 10 card Celtic Crux spread, or others) A great way to start readings is to give yourself readings on a regular basis. I STILL do daily readings for myself to know what to expect each day. Each time you'll learn more and more about your own interpretations of the runes or cards and layouts or spreads used. This allows you to become more comfortable and confident before giving readings to others. Knowing yourself well enough is key to remaining objective while giving readings. Our inner-selves can sometimes throw us off in self readings, which is why some books do not recommend it. The more objective you are in self readings, the more accurately you'll be able to interpreted the messages for yourself, and as well for others. More recently, I wrote about self tarot readings suggestions in another blog entry at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/self-tarot-reading-suggestions If I can clarify further or if you have more questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Thank you for reading my blog.

The submitted question covered in this blog: "Are Ouiji boards dangerous?" Ouiji boards are often the target of scary stories or horror movies and are usually quite misunderstood. Many see them as bad or evil due to these widely known misconceptions that exist, especially amongst some Catholic religious groups. The word "Ouija" has been trademarked by the Hasbro gaming company to sell as a kind of family board game and that word has often been used to refer to them. It is originally known as a talking board or a spirit board. It consists of a flat wooden board marked with the letters of the alphabet, the numbers 0–9, sometimes also containing the words "yes", "no", "hello" and "goodbye". The way that it is used is with a small heart-shaped piece of wood that is simular to an arrow or pointer that slides along the board's surface to spell out messages received from a requested or called upon spirit. It is used as a form of communication with spirit, similar to the use a pendulum. But, by a group of people (not just an individual) and is much more precise with the messages received instead of just a simple "yes" or "no" response. Participants place their fingers on the piece of wood (called a planchette), and it is moved about the board to spell out the messages. It is by the unconscious movements of those controlling the planchette that it moves around the board. In the same way that it is the unconscious movements of an individual that moves a pendulum. When there is a gathering of people who come together to attempt to communicate with a specific spirit, it is often referred to as a seance. A spirit board is a divination tool usually involving the attempt to find closure with past loved ones by asking them specific questions and reading their answers as revealed on the board. It is absolutely not bad, or evil in it's origins. In fact, in the past it was viewed as a parlor game, similar to tarot cards. Where it is seen as a risk in its use is that if each participant is not focused anyone one of them can call upon any spirit to come through on the spirit board that perhaps others are not intending and would otherwise not have a connection to. Once a connection is made with a spirit, there can be an avenue for further interaction with, even without the use of the board thereafter. Afterall, it is the beholders participating in the seance that are behind it's ability and power to commune with spirits, not the board itself. There is a common fear that a spirit board can bring forth demons that can possess the participants. However, that would mean that at least one of the participants already had a previous connection with such an entity and called forth the specific malicious spirit to be involved. This is very rare and requires intention to do such a thing. The experience of using a spirit board is usually of positive transformation. Thank you so much to whom submitted this question. It is in hopes that by answering it, that I have helped to debunk some if the misconceptions that there are regarding this special divination tool. Thank you also for reading my blog. As always, if there are other questions please do not hesitate to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com.

Submitted question covered in this blog: "How do you cast a hex on someone?" This is an interesting question and although I am thankful to receive it, I am hesitant to describe the steps and stages of how to do a hex unless i know that there is experience with working baneful magick. However, I can explain what a hex is. In order to describe what a hex is, I feel I must first explain the difference of what a curse is. A curse is the opposite of a blessing. It is like a negative wish upon someone else. It is actually quite commonly done and some curses can be done easily, even by non-witches. A simple hand gesture, like raising a middle finger at someone is a very simple form of a curse. The results of a simple curse are usually short lived and not always very impactful depending on the seriousness of the feelings involved. A curses strength may depend on the emotions involved. Also, curses do tend to backfire if uncontrolled when sent out. For example, road rage often results in a curse being sent towards the other driver. That rage involved can backfire onto the sender, in this example if no longer focused or paying as close attention to their driving (cause an accident) or their health (high blood pressure, etc.), Or their mental state (not think about the consequences to their actions before it's too late). Being confident and sure if one's self is often enough to avoid the influences caused by a simple curse. Protections can be done too avoid influence from stronger curses. A hex is a bit different than a curse, as it is done through spellwork, is also intended to bring negative misfortune or harm and the effect can last a long time. It is the total opposite to a healing spell and it's effects can be devastating. Sending vast negativity at someone, it is often mistaken for a curse. But, it is not like a curse, as it's much more direct and consistent along side workings. The influences caused by a hex are often unavoidable in most cases. It requires practically feeling literal long-standing hate for someone in order to acheive results and is also often performed repetitively. Much protection and focus is advised when performing a hex so not too backfire the attempt into one's self or those surrounding. The results really depend on the baneful intentions involved in the spellwork. A hex can sometimes be undone by undoing the original harm that invoked the need for such hate. That being said, it takes soooo much energy and effort for someone to cast a hex that it is very draining. Not to mention, other witches themselves most often use their own personal protections against malicious workings against them. In most cases, it's not actually worth doing in the first place. Quite often a banishment, or a binding or a reversal spell or a blessing will suffice. Hexes are actually quite rarely done by witches because of this. Curses on the other hand can be very simple and quickly done. Often, simply done with words. It is in hopes that this information is helpful in understanding that doing hexes should be avoided. Unless very experienced or knowledgeable in those kinds of baneful workings, it would not be recommended to try to do. Was this helpful? Did this blog entry make sense? If not, please feel free to let me know of your questions or concerns by submitting them to me at the www.askagreywitch.com homepage and I will try to elaborate here for you further. Stay safe everyone, and blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog: "Is your family also Pagan/Wiccan?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. Indeed, I have followed the Wiccan ways since before 2016 when i began my three years and three days initiation. In my even younger years before then, i learned about Wicca and dabbeled in some Wiccan traditions. However, since i was very young witchcraft and Paganism has always captured my whole being. There is a difference between Wicca and witchcraft as explained in a previous blog: www.askagreywitch.com/post/why-start-this-blog-channel and I've talked in another previous blog about how I intuitively began witchcraft from a young age: www.askagreywitch.com/post/how-i-became-a-witch So, what makes me Pagan? From a very young age, i have always held a solid respect for nature and all living creatures and plants. The seasons changes have always been times of reflection for me and I have always held a deep respect for the times of the year that are traditionally the prime pagan celebrations within what's known as the "wheel of the year". The wheel of the year can be described as a circular calendar where as several holidays are equally spread out in one year cycle. The year consistently repeating itself like a circle, and these special pagan holiday times symbolically act as the "spokes" of that circular system often referred to as forming a wheel: Image taken from my old book of shadows. Even though while growing up my birth family was Catholic, i did not relate to their beliefs and traditions. Church sermans always left me with confusion and more questions until i refused to attend. While others around me celebrated Christmas, I was reflecting on and respecting the three days of darkness (the longest nights of the year) from Dec. 21st until Dec. 24th and I would behold the slight changes of the sun beginning to return on Dec. 25th, essentially celebrating Yule. While my parents celebrated Easter as the death and resurrection of Christ, I was observing balancing of light/dark and the awakening of nature and returning of spring/summer, essentially celebrating Ostara. Etc. As i got older my own traditions further differed from my family's traditions. Educating myself, I began to identify as Pagan. Given these stark differences between my birth family and myself, i left home at the early age of 15 years old and set out on my own journey of discovery learning the pagan traditions and rites that I also learned have been followed by others for centuries. Skipping to many years later, after connecting with other Pagans, learning further about the pagan traditions and practices from a few mentors, and from my own understandings of life, I held an even deeper connection with nature and my place within the universe. Gods and Goddesses have always been considered to me as aspects of human nature that can be connected to/with through ritual, offerings and deep meditation. Knowing my own inner self and recognizing the shadows of my subconscious became trivial in my journey of self discovery and identity. Now (again even many years after that), i have my own household family with my spouse and our four children. My spouse is Pagan with shamanistic energies. Therefore, is not Wiccan as am I. It was/is important to both of us that our children also take their own journey each into self reflection and discovery, to follow their head and heart together regarding what beleifs are held important to them as they grow in their own spirituality. Two of my children have Iroquois indigenous heritage, one of my children is Pagan, and one of my children follow a Catholic ideology and has been babtised. This variation within my household is totally fine with me as we have always been a family with values of diversity and acceptance. This does not hinge on my own way of life in which i live as i stay true to my self and my own Wiccan beliefs. Which is what i teach my children, to be true to yourself . And, that's totally acceptable. Long story short, my family is not Wiccan. I hope that this has helped to answer the question submitted. If you have questions regarding my practice, rituals, traditions, and/or beliefs, please feel free to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com. Thank you for reading more about me and for visiting my blog.